Speaking is an art. It is one of the greatest expressions of who we are. Our language reflects our thoughts and projects our persona. It is as much our style as the outfit we wear. Language reflects personal grooming and the respect we have for ourselves and those we’re talking to. Knowing how to speak, when to speak, and mastering correct usage are powerful tools for communicating with the world around us. The words we choose can establish us as powerful, confident, trustworthy, sophisticated and elegant; and they can just as easily make us appear immature, confused, misunderstood and disorganized. Mastering our speech is an art that can literally change who we are in the world.
Expert etiquette teacher Mita Luciani Ranier shares with us few small tips to remember whenever we’re in conversation. First of all, remember to use language correctly. Speaking without mistakes is a question of style. Make an effort not to drop too many trendy words. Use proper language concisely. Avoid throwing in phrases in foreign languages that might not make sense. Culture isn’t conveyed if we misuse and mispronounce phrases. Finally, do not use curse words and vulgar language. It isn’t hip, and most of all can come off as ridiculous and rude.
Remember, our words are constantly conveying the value we put on ourselves and those we’re speaking to. Through them, we tell the world who we are.
